For the past few days, we have been discussing ways in which wives can enjoy both their marriage and husband. I do hope you have picked one or two things from the series. If you have not seen the previous series, please go here to check them out. Ensure you read them before going through this one.
I feel I need to share a few more things with wives out there. I do believe you already know them but you may not know they are very important. As little as these things are, they have left too many homes shattered. I am putting them up because you need to watch them. Perhaps, they are already affecting your home.
Just Be Clean Enough
Well, it appears to be a problem that some wives are not clean enough for their husbands. Usually, women are more into this but when a man begins to complain, it means the wives really need to check it. Lots of men can leave this disarray but that is unfeminine. Even if a man doesn’t complain about this, be rest assured he is not happy with it and it may be blocking some goodies from him to you. Do not compromise your personal and home hygiene.
Understand The Silence
Generally, men have two types of silence. They are both used to answer the question. A wise wive will need to learn each. What each silence means is illustrated in the look that accompanies it. While one means NO, the other shows that he is thinking about what to do or say. Where it means no, just move on to the next topic. This is usually in a matter of provision or money. In the latter, give him more time, don’t interrupt his thoughts with too many words. At that time, he is considering many things you may not be aware of.
A Common Mistake Of Wives
There is a general mistake almost all wives usually make. This comes into play when a man buys something out of his own volition. Usually, the husband feels the wife will appreciate this act and the thing purchased. It then turns out that the wives either did not like it or felt the price was outrageous. The biggest mistake is to make the man stupid for buying it at that price. Some will even show their disapproval. What you have done is simple; you have blocked him from buying things even if they are very cheap. Be wise!
We may not be able to exhaust all the wisdom nuggets for wives in a post. If you are a wife willing to make your home great, I encourage you to keep checking this page. Also, don’t forget to share with loved ones. Who knows, you may be saving a home by doing so. Peace!