Thanks for checking in on this page to follow our articles. I have received a few chats on the last piece. I am glad people wants to know the truth about marriage. It tells me that people are interested in having a great home and singles are getting prepared. We shall continue with silent marriage truths.
Still on the marriage truths, we will be looking at a few silent marriage truths. These are truths people don’t talk about. It is most likely that no one will tell you. I really don’t know why. Maybe it is because it may discourage young people from going into marriage. The truth is, everyone that comes into marriage will at one point or the other hit these truths. So, why not get them prepared ahead?
Somehow, everyone has character flaws. No one is perfect including the writer of this piece and the person reading it right now. It therefore means that you have to find a way to understand and manage the character flaws of your partner. Like someone once said, we are both managing ourselves. You need to get that into your thinking. Let your expectation be moderate and humanistic.
Be careful With Standards
Today, the problem homes are facing is game of comparing homes. Don’t try to compare your home with that of your friend. Your home is unique in its own way. Therefore relate with it on the basis of what it is. The mistake people make is that they try to compare the strength a home with the failures of theirs. Who told you that home doesn’t have its own fire. Be careful.
Your partner is different from that of your friend or the ones you watch in the movie. Just because something works in your friend’s marriage doesn’t mean it will work in yours too. Even you learn from people, try and understand what it means in your home and how it applies to yours.
It is important for you to understand what your partner calls love. You are not wired the same way. So, your definition of love will not be same. For instance, one may cherish your act of frequent calls to find out how they are. While another may feel disturbed. If you cherish it and then do it for your partner who feels you are disturbing him/her, you would achieved the opposite of what you are trying to do.
The Power Of Gifts
Everyone love gifts especially when it comes from the people you love. Getting gifts for your partner is one of the ways to keep the fire burning. It may not all the time because of financial commitment but do it once a while. The idea is never to put out the flame of love.
The real silent marriage truth is that both the husband and wife will evolve into another person individually when situations change in the home. The change may either be positive or negative. When the change comes, be prepared to embrace it and make it work for the survival of your home. Just be prepared.